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Pick an online speed dating event for your city and age range.
For Londoners who are divorced, separated, or single later than the apps were built for. You’ll meet other singles aged 40–55 through short private video dates from home. Three minutes each. After every conversation you privately choose who you’d like to see again. If it’s mutual, we connect you. A calm Sunday evening. No swiping, no performing for a younger app, and no giving up a whole night for one drink.
By purchasing a ticket you confirm you are at least 18 years old and agree to our Terms, Community Guidelines, and Safety Policy.
You join once. We handle the rest.
Pick an online speed dating event for your city and age range.
Join from your phone, tablet, or laptop at the event time.
Rotate through short private video dates.
Privately select the people you’d like to speak to again.
If they choose you too, we connect you after the event.
Your camera and microphone must be working before the event begins.
You'll receive a confirmation email with your event details. Before the event starts, we'll also send you a reminder so you know when to join.
As a first-timer, it was more fun than I expected. I would definitely do it again.
Wonderful event—I had a fantastic time!
It was my first event and I really enjoyed it. It was well organised, with a good selection of people.
Speedies events are fully online. You join from your phone or laptop using your event link.
No. Speedies runs in your browser. You just need a working camera, microphone, and internet connection.
Speedies automatically pairs you with other singles in the 40-55 age range and rotates everyone fairly during the event.
No. Your choices are private. Someone only knows you liked them if they choose you too.
If numbers are uneven, some people may have a short break between rounds. The system rotates everyone as fairly as possible.
If you both choose each other, it's a mutual match. We'll connect you after the event so you can continue the conversation.
Leave the conversation if you feel unsafe, then use the Report a Safety Concern link in the site footer. We review reports privately. Contact local emergency services if anyone is in immediate danger.